This is a Q&A … ok PSA depending on your perspective.. but seriously, is there any reason a grown ass man over 35 should be showing his nipples in a profile pic (unless you’re an athlete, trainer or fitness model… it’s your job,) otherwise… WTH. Here is what grown intelligent professional women who can conjugate verbs think of your shirtless profile pic.Read More
I’ve been making myself crazy this week.
I’ve been working on launching some new business things. Content, site, etc.. and it’s driving my up a f…..g wall. Why?
Perfectionism, overthinking and that GD voice. You know the one, the judgmental one in my head. Tell me if you relate.
I’ve worked, reworked and scrapped more things that I can even count. I’ve devoted so much attention to minutia that I swear to God I felt like a teen hopped up on Adderall.
At one point I’d focused on a single paragraph so much that I looked up and I’d spent an hour. WTF?
There is “wordsmithing” and then there is obsession.
When I would finally get something finished and really looking good, I’d become paralyzed with fear about putting it out there.
"Hit enter or send? Oh hell no, I should think about this more."
Pressfield calls it “resistance" and it takes many forms.Read More
Four years ago this morning I was by myself in Presby Hospital Dallas laying on a table to be wheeled into surgery to remove malignant melanoma (skin cancer) from my arm as well as a lymph node. Here is what I learned...Read More
Leave it to the geniuses at UrbanDictionary.com to put a name to describe what many of us experience daily: The “California No”
* For the uninitiated, Miriam Webster’s Dictionary, this is not! UrbanDictionary.com is a site that keeps you up on the latest slang, phrases and language so you don’t sound like a complete relic in front of your children or young employees, instead you just sound like a wannabe hipster).
Stuck in your career? Things not working out like you have planned? There are four important questions you need to ask yourself to get yourself out of a rut and prepared to make a change. Here is the first step...Read More