Way to go!
You've made it this far.
So, you've got a few miles on you.
You've got some life experience under your belt. You've racked up some wins and maybe even a few dents or scars along the way. You're older and wiser, and though you may give off the appearance of totally having your shit together... you don't always have all the answers.
You don't know what you don't know...
until it is staring you right in the face.
Who you are, what you want, your relationships, and how you view and experience the world is DRAMATICALLY different today in your late thirties, forties or fifties than when you were in your twenties.
Welcome to "advanced adulting"
You may have seen the phrase "adulting" in social media or in memes. Most often it refers to doing simple boring things like "I have to go to work today... #Adulting is so hard." Oh Really? Poor baby.
I've even seen colleges offer classes in "adulting" that teach kids how to do laundry or balance a bank account... WTH? Amateurs!
That's not "adulting"... those are basic survival skills you should have learned at 15. I don't deal with that.
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Real Life Issues for “Grown Ass” Adults
These are the REAL ISSUES that nobody tells you about or that anything can adequately prepare you for,
Regardless of your background, income, gender, or where in the world you live, EACH OF US experiences one or more of these when we reach a particular stage of life or milestone.
- Divorce & life post divorce
- Being single at a certain age
- Marriage (Good, Bad, 2nd, Whether to stay or go)
- Parenting / Single parenting
- Career changes
- Starting over & transitions
- Success & failure
- Following your dreams, passions and being true to yourself.
- Self esteem & identity
- Comparing yourself to others
- Changing goals, expectations & life plans.
- Being alone
- Am I doing what I'm meant to do? What's my purpose or legacy?
- I'm not as far along as I thought I'd be or things turned out differently than expected.
- Being WITH the wrong person, CHOOSING wrong or even BEING THE wrong person
- Aging parents
- Changing, losing and establishing new friendships
a “real life” masterclass
you aren't alone & you aren't crazy.
it CAN feel like you’RE SUPPOSED TO ALWAYS have your S*** together, but the truth is sometimes... you don’t
- You DON'T KNOW what you DON'T KNOW.
- You don't know WHAT TO DO, WHERE TO TURN, HOW TO DO IT or what your OPTIONS are.
- You're in a RUT or ROUTINE ... or "Rut-ine" as I call it.
- You know you are CAPABLE OF MORE or have been PLAYING SMALL but don't know where to start to make a change.
- You want to run away & reinvent yourself
- You want to know how to THINK, ACT LIKE & BECOME THE MAN OR A WOMAN THAT YOU'RE MEANT TO BE OR THAT SOMEONE WOULD WANT TO BE WITH.
- You're scared to break out of your shell, or of being rejected or what "others" will think.
- You need reassurance and to know YOU'RE NOT ALONE, CRAZY OR FULL OF SHIT.
and sometimes, it can BE TOTALLY OVERWHELMING!
so, how are you going to navigate this uncharted territory?
It takes a plan, a change, a different way of thinking, resources, ideas, strategies, a sounding board or someone to guide you and help you connect the dots or see yourself in a way that you've lost or can't see. ... and your friends and family won't do.
You need someone with experience, perspective and objectivity to listen, lift you up or even call you out on your shit when you need it and show you the way.
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that's what I do for you.
I advise, coach, mentor and teach you how to connect the dots.
How to understand your situation, relationships, your path & even yourself more clearly.
I do this by sharing my experience and expertise BUT ALSO by acting as YOUR conduit or matchmaker; connecting you with other great ideas, resources , authors, experts and real people who’ve experience these REAL LIFE issues.
You will receive PRACTICAl tactics, “how to” TIPS & STRATEGIES in addition to understanding, direction. and the confidence guaranteed to help you...
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