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So, you've got a few miles on you.
You've got some life experience under your belt. You've racked up some wins and probably a few dents or scars along the way. You're older, wiser, and experienced.
However, even though you may give off the appearance of totally having your shit together... you don't always have all the answers.
Who you are, what you want, your relationships, and how you view and experience the world is DRAMATICALLY DIFFERENT in your late thirties, forties or fifties than when you were in your twenties.
Growing up, the focus and energy was put on getting you to a certain point of life…a destination or milestone. For many of us that meant go to school, get a job, find a partner, get married, have kids, see you back at retirement. Cool.
The problem is that nobody told you what to do when things don’t go as planned, or what happens when you find yourself at a certain point in life thinking, “OK. NOW WHAT?” It happens to everyone, and when it does…
Most of us suffer in silence, repeat the same mistakes, or “wing it” because we don’t know WTF we are doing…
and God forbid you tell anyone or ask for help because…
…and that’s OK.
Sure, one part of your life may be perfect, but other areas, maybe your career, your marriage, your dating life, relationships, or your children are a total train wreck. Maybe you find yourself having achieved the “goals” or what was “expected” of you… but now it’s time for the next chapter.
Everyone is different. You may facing a change or transition you NEVER anticipated, like finding yourself single and dating again after being married for 15 years; hating your soul sucking job and thinking “what do I want to be when I grown up… the second time.” ; or you thinking your aren’t as far along as you thought you’d be by now and there has to be more. The list goes on and on, but the fact is…
You don't know what you don't know...
UNTIL IT IS STARING YOU RIGHT IN THE FACE.
This isn’t your basic millennial #adultingishard” BS -“I’ve got to be at work early and pay my own bills.”
This is Advanced Adulting
ADVANCED ADULTING are the real-issues that we “grown-ass” adults face, that nobody tells you about & nothing can prepare you for.
Regardless of your background, income, gender, education, or where in the world you live, EACH OF US encounters “life” events, situations or questions that we never anticipated.
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you aren't alone & you aren't crazy.
I know. I’ve been there… and so have many others.
You feel like you are the only one, reluctant to talk about it or seek help or reach out… especially men
You don't know WHAT TO DO, WHERE TO TURN, HOW TO DO IT or what your OPTIONS are.
You know you are CAPABLE OF MORE or have been PLAYING SMALL but don't know where to start to make a change.
You want to run away & reinvent yourself
You want to know how to THINK, ACT LIKE & BECOME THE MAN OR A WOMAN THAT YOU'RE MEANT TO BE… OR THAT SOMEONE WOULD WANT TO BE WITH.
You're scared to break out of your shell, or of being rejected or what "others" will think.
You need reassurance and to know YOU'RE NOT ALONE, CRAZY OR FULL OF SHIT.
…and sometimes, it is TOTALLY OVERWHELMING!
Well, you could… but it would suck and you simply don’t have to.
Let’s do this together.
Through content, online courses in a variety of topics, 1:1 and group coaching & a community, we will work together to help you connect the dots, understand your situation, relationships, your path & even yourself more clearly.
I’ll share my experience and hard earned wisdom, best-practices and cautionary tales (aka. red flags & screw ups to avoid) BUT I’ll also act as YOUR conduit or matchmaker; connecting you with other great ideas, resources, authors, experts and real people who’ve experienced AND are experiencing these REAL LIFE issues just like you.
and just who the hell am I?
I'm not a therapist or have an alphabet behind my name. I’m a single dad, a Texan, a best-selling author, executive and more… but most importantly, I’m a guy with a lot of real life experience that I share with men and women to help them avoid mistakes, gain understanding & find answers. You can read the full bio, dirty details and E True Hollywood story HERE.